Dear Pastor,
I need you to tell me what to do. I am in a situation where I am in America and my boyfriend is in Cuba. He doesn't call me because he says that where he is, it is hard for him to get cards. We communicate through emails. I call him, but all of a sudden I don't hear from him. I sent a message to him asking him what are his plans, and he told me that I should do whatever I want to do, but he loves me.
What is your take on this?
M.P., USA
Dear M.P.,
This man's love for you is rather strange. I don't think he loves you as much as he is saying. I believe that if he truly loves you he would tell you to hang on and wait for him. His love for you is not very strong. Whether you end the relationship or continue with him
doesn't matter much to him. So I suggest that you tell him to get lost, it is over.
Pastor
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