Dear Pastor,

I am a 21-year-old lady who is now working. My problem is that I have met the nicest man ever and I think I want to be with him, but I don't think he feels the same way about me. I've tried to bring up the topic of marriage, but everytime I do he tries to stay from it. This has made me really hurt inside. I feel like I am not loved. I was hoping to have kids for this man, but he doesn't seem interested.

Pastor, what should I do?

K.W., New York, USA

Dear K.W.,

You are pushing too hard. Why not allow the relationship with this man to grow? You are still very young. This man is not interested in getting married. So if you are in a hurry to get married, you'll have to look for another man. Don't push your luck. It is not that the man does not love you, he is just not ready for marriage.

Pastor