Dear Pastor,

I am a Jamaican woman living in the USA. A couple of months ago, I met a nice Jamaican man and we have made plans to spend the rest of our lives together as husband and wife. I need to know how to keep him happy and satisfied during and after we consummate our marriage.

T., New Jersey, USA

Dear T.,

I suggest that you call a family counsellor and make arrangements for both of you to have pre-marital counselling. In pre-marital counselling, many topics are covered. Both of you can ask the counsellor any type of questions and the counsellor will tell you what books both of you should read together. So make sure you go for counselling before you get married.

Pastor