Dear Pastor,

I am sometimes confused about the man in my life. For over three years now he has been living with his babymother, but they are not intimate. They are together only to take care of his child. I just can't understand why he can't leave the house as she also has a man in her life. He has to take care of her bills, he has to wash, cook, clean and do things for himself as they live in two different rooms. I am so fed up.

Pastor, please, tell me what to do as I really do love him. He loves me too.

D. F., St Andrew, Jamaica

Dear D. F.,

Do you really believe what this man is saying? Why can't he move out and still support his child? How do you know that he is not having an intimate relationship with the woman? Don't forget that a man can love more than one woman at a time. In other words, he can be in love with you and his child's mother at the same time.

Pastor