Dear Pastor,

I am a 29-year-old woman and I am seeing a 52-year-old man. He has two children, a boy and a girl. Their ages are 21 and 23 respectively. He used to live with their mother, but they no longer live together. He still corresponds with her by email. He's in America and she is in Canada. We've been going for three years now, but he never tells me that he loves me. I really love him. We don't live together. I saw a car by his house and when I knocked on the door, he didn't answer. When I saw him he said nothing happened.

Tell me, pastor, what should I do?

J.S., Florida, USA

Dear J.S.,

Watch out, you are probably in a relationship that is not going anywhere. Why didn't he answer his door when you knocked? At his age, he should settle down. Make sure you are not being used.

Pastor