Dear Pastor,

Last night I was at the house and my room-mate's boyfriend came over. I was in the shower and they were in the room having sex. I heard everything as my roommate moaned and groaned and so I became horny and I felt my vagina jump. Pastor, is this wrong? My boyfriend was at the club and even when he came home all I could think about was this man who made my friend moan and groan. Now I can't look at my friend without thinking about 'Mr. Do It Right'.

What should I do? I want to moan and groan too.

D. C., Florida, USA

Dear D. C.,

You are a naughty girl. What you are trying to say to me is that you are sexually active, but your man is not doing things to make you moan and groan. Perhaps after you have planned your wedding date, both of you need to go to a sex therapist who will be able to tell both of you what to do so that you can moan and groan.

Pastor