Dear Pastor,

I have a big problem. I met a lady on the Internet and we started to email each other twice a week. I live in Canada and she lives in Jamaica. She sends me pictures of herself, but I don't send her pictures of myself because I am older than she is. I am 56 years old and she is 24.

Pastor, I love her, but the age difference is the problem. Please, tell me what to do.

W. W., Ontario, Canada

Dear W. W.,

First of all I would like to say to you that you are not a good man, you are a deceiver. You have not told this young lady that you are by far her senior. You are trying to fool her by pretending that you are a young man. Honest and straightforward men don't behave that way. You ought to be ashamed of yourself. Tell the young lady the truth.

Pastor