Dear Pastor,

I am an 18-years-old young woman who is having a hard time. I have a man overseas who gives me anything I want - any thing whatsoever. But I don't love him and I tell him like two times and he thinks it's a joke. I don't love him. I had a boyfriend but he left for New York to stay with his mom to get a job there. I love him so much. I miss him. We both plan to get married and go back to school. I am working, but he is not. This man overseas wants to take me up. I know it would be a better life for me to go to school and all that, but I don't love him and I don't want to keep taking his things. I am not going to live in the same house and sleep in the same bed with him and I don't have any feelings for him.

C.T., St Catherine, Jamaica

Dear C.T.,

Drop the man you do not love. He might be ale to give you silver and gold and lots of money, but you will not be happy with him. Life is too short to be unhappy.

Pastor