Dear Pastor

I live in the United Kingdom (UK) and I am British born. I came to Jamaica last year and on my visit, I met a guy who I thought was such a gentleman. I came back to the UK and we have kept in contact. We had planned to get married but, lately, this guy has changed on me and is asking me for money and all sorts of things.

When I was in Jamaica, I asked him how many children he had and he told me two children, but I played a fast one on him and I said so how are your four kids doing and he said to me, "I don't have four children, I have three children." I think the guy thinks I am stupid and I think he is looking for someone to take him to England. I ended the relationship.

Pastor, do you think I'm overreacting?

L.H., London, England

Dear L.H.,

Good for you, you did the right thing. You read him correctly. You are a smart woman.

Pastor