Dear Pastor,

I'm a 20-year-old female, who is pregnant with my first child. I have been seeing a guy for four years. He is 24. I'm nine months pregnant and I found out that he has another girl pregnant. I told him it was over between us and I don't want him around me or our son.

Was that the right thing to do? I gave up my life for him. I disrespected my friends and family and to hear this now. He tells me he loves me. This is one girl whose love is not blind. I have been there with him when he had nothing. I stuck with him when he cheated and I forgave him but, this time, a child is included and my son is not going to get hurt by anyone.

M. L., St Catherine, Jamaica

Dear M. L.,

If you are determined to end the relationship with your boyfriend, make sure you do not try to prevent him from seeing his child. I know you are upset with this man. Evidently, he has been giving you the impression that you are his only woman while he was playing around with another woman. So, he has now fathered 2 children, but he can only marry one woman.

According to you, you have made sacrifices for this man when he was going through his rough period. He should have been more careful.

You don't know what he has told the other woman, who is pregnant. Perhaps, she was unaware that he had a steady relationship with you. So, please don't get into any cuss-cuss with her. Deal with the man only.

Pastor