Dear Pastor,

I have a best friend who acts like she doesn't like my boyfriend and behind my back she has been going out with him. What kind of friend goes out with your man behind your back? I was talking to him for two years and within that two years she has been going out with him for one year and I didn't even know until three weeks ago. I confronted him with the situation and he said he doesn't know what I am talking about.

Pastor, what must I do?

J. M., St Catherine, Jamaica

Dear J. M.,

You should ask your best friend whether she has been dating your boyfriend. If she says no, leave the matter alone. Whenever you have proof, you may raise the matter again. But don't try to go around seeking to find out whether it is true.

Pastor