Dear Pastor,

I am a 25-year-old woman living in the USA. I have a boyfriend in Jamaica and another in America. I am in love with my boyfriend in Jamaica but I am not in love with the other. My problem is I don't want to break up with the one in America but I don't love him. My boyfriend in Jamaica is my world.

Pastor, please tell me what to do.

M.S., New Jersey, USA

Dear M.S.,

You have already decided to be intimate with two men. When you are in America, you go with the American. You know why you feel you must have him.

One of these days, somebody may tell the Jamaican man that he is not the only one in your life. Look, don't play around, tell the American boy that you have a man in Jamaica and you are in love with him.

Pastor