Dear Pastor,

I love a man who I am seeing, but it is obvious that he does not love me. I would like to know what I can do to get his love. I have tried several remedies. I have been to the herbal store and still nothing works. It seems the only time he shows me a little affection is when we have sex. I really don't want to have sex with him, but because of my love for him I allow it to happen.

Pastor, please, tell me what to do. I want to get married to this man.

S. C., USA

Dear S. C.,

You cannot buy love. This man doesn't love you and you are aware of it. Don't waste your time and money chasing him. It is not going to work.

He will use you and when he is tired of you, he will curse you.

Pastor