Dear Pastor,

I am a 20-year-old lady and some-one is in love with me. This boy is only 15. We are intimate. I am confused. Pastor, is this wrong?

J.B., St Andrew, Jamaica

Dear J. B.,

You ought to be ashamed of yourself for having sex with a 15-year-old boy. You know that it is wrong, so you shouldn't be asking me if what you are doing is wrong. Cut that out immediately. There was a time when people felt that it was only men who were having sex with underage girls, but many of you women are guilty of having sex with little boys, and the practice is widespread.

Pastor