Dear Pastor,

I am 22 years old. I have a baby by a man who has eight other kids. My baby is the youngest. He went and got married when my baby was three months old. He is now in prison and I am not sure if I want him around my baby when he comes home.

What do you think I should do, pastor?

A.M., New Jersey, USA

Dear A.M.,

Tell him while he is in prison that you do not want him back in your life.

Tell him that you expect him to support his child, but there will be no intimacy between the both of you anymore.

Pastor