I hope you can help me with a problem that I'm having. I have been sexually active with my wife for over a decade now and she cannot seem to get pregnant. During that time, I have cheated, which I'm not proud of and on more than one occasion two women got pregnant by me.

We have been to many different doctors and done a number of tests and they can't seem to find anything that is wrong with us. We have gone as far as trying the IVF and they did a test and said that she was pregnant, but when she went back for a scan there was no pregnancy. It's as if it just disappeared.

This is putting a lot of strain on our relationship and it's as if we are on the brink of separating. I love my wife very much and getting a divorce is the last thing I would want to do.

Pastor, please help me.

Blessed Love

Dear Blessed Love,

I suggest that you remain with your wife. Don't leave her. God has not blessed all couples with children. Perhaps you may consider adopting children but please stay together.

Pastor