I have a babymother who left me and went to North Carolina with my child. She told me that she is gone to work, but she does not have a work permit. I am wondering if she is married to the man she has gone to. She met a man over the Internet. I am 50 and she is 30 years old.

Pastor, do you think this is a problem?

J.W., St Catherine, Jamaica

Dear J.W.,

I regret hearing that your child's mother has not informed you where in North Carolina she is working, and with whom. You have a right to know because she has your child with her.

You suspect that she is with a man she met on the Internet. You did not give her name or your child's name. However, I hope she will see your letter and respond.

Pastor