I've been in a relationship for five years. I love my boyfriend and I know he loves me. The problem is that he is 15 years older than me and has never held a steady job. His last job was two years ago. I 'work off the books' and live at home with my parents. I'm very stressed because he promised to file for me, but he's not working. I really want to marry for love and not just for benefits.

Do you think I should hold on or move on? He also has a problem being monogamous, but he insists that he has worked on it and is now faithful. Please, help me.

Anonymous, New York, USA

Dear Anonymous,

What are you doing with a man who has never had a steady job? How do you expect him to sponsor you to become legal in America if he doesn't have a job? This man is a joker and you have wasted five years of love on this loser.

Move on, young woman. Don't spend another month with him. If you stay with him, your future will be very dark.

Pastor