I'm 22 years of age and I'm in two relationships and I think I love both my partners. My first girlfriend is 23 and the other is 17. The girl who is 23, I hardly see her but we have known each other for 14 years. She was the first person I fell in love with from primary school. At primary school, she never had any feelings for me. About 10 years after, we met again, but this time she had a child and, because I love her so much, I made her my girlfriend. Months later, I got engaged to her.

The relationship was sailing smoothly for about eight months before we started to argue about everything. I would do anything for her, but she lives far from me and she is a liar. I can't trust her again. Her daughter loves me and I love her too. She even thinks I'm her father. The girl who is 17 seems to appreciate me more. She knows what to do and say when I'm feeling down.

Pastor, I don't know who to choose.

O. G., St. Catherine, Jamaica

Dear O. G.,

I suggest that you walk away from this 23-year-old woman. She will stress you out. You can't handle this woman (if you know what I mean). You are making yourself a fool.

She will dry your pocket. She is a liar and she is untrustworthy.

Frankly, you are not ready for a serious relationship. You should only date women. The 17-year-old is young, but, if she is interested and her parents agree, it would be better to date her than to play around with the 23-year-old woman.

Pastor