I have been living with the love of my life for two years now. I love this man with all my heart and he says that the feeling is mutual, but I am having two problems.

I am involved with a man in New York and I must be honest. I think that it is his money why I am still with him. He doesn't know about the man who I am living with because he was first. And, my man thinks that I am through with that relationship because I told him so.

The other problem is that my man is a teacher and has a lot of friends. But, lately I started get ting suspicious and started reading his messages. I found out that my suspicions about him cheating were right. I asked him about it and he said that it was a girl who is having problems and that I should stop worrying myself.

Pastor, I need you to advise me on what to do because I am very worried. I don't want to lose him because he is the only man who gives me the love and affection I have always wanted. May God continue to bless you.

L. M., St. Catherine, Jamaica

Dear L.M.,

Be honest with yourself. Bring the relationship you are having with the man in New York to an end. You know that you are interested in is his money, and there is no future in this relationship.

Stop, before the man who you are living with finds out what you are doing.

Try to build a good relationship with the man you are living with. Both of you should go and see a family counsellor. Both of you should learn to be true to each other.

Pastor