I am depressed that my mother did not give me training bras when I was young. I have to live with these breasts forever.

I am unhappy because these men nowadays do not want women without firm breasts. I asked a man if he would date a woman with big floppy breasts and he said, "No, he doesn't want any flip flop breasts." I felt embarrassed within myself.

Are there doctors in Jamaica who can rectify my problem? I am also asking all mothers to give their daughters training bras, otherwise their breasts will become floppy and it will affect them.

S.G. Kingston, Jamaica.

Dear S,G.,

There are doctors who can help you. It is costly, but you wouldn't have to live with these "floppy breasts", as you call them.

I will send you the name of a doctor who will be able to help you.

Pastor