My life is like a living hell. I'm overseas, but I live with a married man. Everytime we have an argument, he is the first to say it's over. Right now he told me that it's over. I love him even though I know he is not mine because he treats me really well.

Pastor, I'm confused.

S.C., Antigua.

Dear S.C.,

Try your very best to get out of this situation in which you have found yourself. I hope you are in the island legally. Jamaican women are very wise, so don't allow this man to use you. Get out of this relationship. It is unhealthy. Find a single man. This man is trying to "diss" you and you have to look him in the eye and tell him that he is not better than you. And one day he may have to ask you to give him a cup of water. He is rude and out of order. Both of you are carrying on and he is married, but that does not give him the right to "diss" you.

Pastor