I have been reading your columns and find that you have been doing a great job. Keep up the good work.

I have this friend who is madly in love with a guy in Jamaica who is eight years older than she is. The problem is that she is living in the united States and openly dating other boys who do nothing but hurt her feelings. My friend does not sleep with any of these boys; she kisses them regularly, and then gets mad at her boyfriend in Jamaica for going to parties with other girls who he says he's going to "dagger".

Tell me, Pastor is this a good relationship for my friend and her boyfriend? I know they love each other but the age difference and the occasional flirting bothers me.

S.B., USA

Dear S.B.,

Mind your own business.

Pastor