I am pregnant and don't know who is the father of my unborn child. Also, I am in love with the guy who raped me. I don't know what to do.

S.S., Birmingham, England

Dear S.S.,

After you've had your baby, do paternity tests to determine who is the father of your child. You said you were raped, but that you love the man who raped you. Did he really rape you? When did you fall in love with him - after he raped you or before? Have you spoken to both men about your pregnancy? If you haven't, you should and you should tell them the truth. Tell them you had sex with both of them but you do not know who impregnated you. So, each of them should be prepared to do the paternity tests.

I wish you well.

Pastor