I am a young adult and I suspect that my partner is cheating on me. Whenever we're at home and his phone rings, he leaves the room. And when we are making love, his phone just won't stop ringing and sometimes he stops to answer and takes the call outside.

What do you think I should do?

M. J., Kingston, Jamaica

Dear M. J.,

Perhaps your man's cell phone does not work well everywhere while he is at home. Some cellphones don't work well in closed buildings.

Sometimes the reception is bad in the bedroom and one has to go outside to speak. I hope you don't think I am the siding with your boyfriend. I don't know the man, but I know what I am saying is true.

However, your partner's cellphone seems to operate very well from the bedroom because you say sometimes while making love he would stop to answer the phone.

It seems to me therefore, that whoever is calling him is more important than you or what he is doing at the time.

He is not very respectful to you. He doesn't care how you feel, so it's up to you to end the relationship with him or stay with him. I believe that you are quite correct. This is a man who has another woman or more than one.

Pastor.