I have a problem. I have been dating a man for seven years but he went to Jamaica and cheated on me. I found out about it because the girl called my phone and told me that he said I'm his past and he is no longer with me. He is also telling me the same thing. He is a liar and can't be trusted, but he doesn't want to leave me alone.

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Pastor, what do you think I should do? I want to leave him so badly. I don't know what's holding me back. He is from Africa and he told me he fixed me so that I can't leave him. Please pray for me that God will give me the strength to leave him. I'm praying for myself also. God bless you and keep you.

M.V., New York, USA

Dear M.V.,

Don't believe this man's nonsense. He is trying to scare you by telling you that he 'fixed' you so that you can't leave him. He is trying to spin your head. He knows that he is a playboy and a liar. This man cannot be trusted but it is totally up to you whether you want to leave him or stay with him.

Pastor