I hope your day is going great. I am going out with a Jamaican for about a year and have found out recently that he is married. I love this man so very much and I don't want to leave him. He is still living with his wife and children. He keeps on telling me lies, one after the other. But, regardless of all that, I still love him anyway. He never buys me gifts or gives me money but what he wants he gets. Please, I need your help and advice. God bless.

C.J., Birmingham

Dear C.J.,

You have to determine in your own mind what you want. You know for sure that the man is married and you have declared that you are not leaving him. He is getting what he wants from you. He doesn't buy you anything but you are giving him all that you can. People want different things in a relationship and you will never leave him until you stop loving him.

It must be something great that you are getting out of this relationship. When your love has turned to hate then you will move on.

Pastor