Dear Pastor,

Good day to you. Can you tell me which sin is more dangerous? I am having sex with my uncle's girlfriend. She wanted to marry me.

We have sex almost every day. She says that she doesn't love the father of her children anymore. What should I do?

On the other hand, I have a cousin who is living with me, he is gay. His lover comes over at times. And I saw them in bed having oral sex. It was plain to see that they were enjoying each other. They were screaming like crazy too.

Pastor, my problem is I felt like joining them to explore some of the romantic times they are having. I kindly await your advice.

Tangled Web.

Dear Tangled Web,

I will tell you what to do. You should read Leviticus, chapter 18. That passage of the Bible condemns your behaviour. It clearly states that it is wrong to have sex with your uncle's woman. Such behaviour is an abomination. This woman and yourself should be ashamed of your behaviour. Both of you are depraved and grossly immoral.

You claim to have seen your male cousin having oral sex with another man. And you had a desire to join in. Clearly, you do not have any moral standard by which you live. It is not a matter of which sin is greater than the other. The Bible warns about the sins that men and women commit with their bodies carry a greater weight of condemnation than others. The Bible says, "Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body." 1st Corinthians 6:18

It is not for me to judge you, but there is no doubt in my mind that you are trying to find a way to justify your behaviour with your uncle's woman, and also to engage in homosexual encounters. But, I must put it you that your behaviour is gross. And please be reminded that both sexual acts are condemned in Scripture.

I urge you to read your Bible and pray and turn to God and ask God to clean you up.

Pastor