Dear Pastor,

I am 23 years old and I live in London, England. I am with this guy who tells me he loves me but he doesn't act like he does. Because I am a model and almost everywhere we go there are cameras, we act like the perfect couple but at home we are not. We argue a lot and I love him because I gave my virginity to him.

I have a lot of money but I just can't figure out if he wants me for me or my money and that may be the reason for him forcing me to marry him. I always have to find an excuse as he wants to follow me to every photo shoot that I go and every celebrity event. He doesn't want me to dress the way that a model has to dress. I love him so much. Pastor, what should I do?

D.L., London, England

Dear D.L.,

You have to decide whether your career is more important than this man. It shouldn't be that way. But this man is so possessive that he is making life difficult for you. He knew that you were a model and that you are popular. It comes with the territory. But he is behaving like a boy. He is immature. You claim that you cannot leave him because he took your virginity. You must be joking! You have to put your foot down and insist that he get himself a job to occupy his time.

You love him, that is good. But being in love with a man doesn't mean that one has to be stupid. Both of you shouldn't think about getting married right now. There are doubts in your mind about him and he has not demonstrated that he trusts you. He is very insecure.

Pastor