I have been dating a guy whom I met through a close friend for almost three months. I have developed strong feelings for him, but it bothers me that he is an atheist. He is passionate about what he believes in; however, I am also passionate about Jesus Christ as my Lord and personal Saviour. There is not a day that goes by where I am not constantly reminded that he is an atheist.

You probably think that if I am so uncomfortable why don't I end the relationship but he was a believer and I'm praying that his faith will be restored. Apart from this difference we share, I see potential in this relationship. My friend, who introduced us claims that he was influenced by his peers and he is going through a phase. Sometimes it gets awkward when we start talking about our beliefs and faith because we disagree and he gets sensitive, ending discussions. I really like him and I know he feels the same.

I would appreciate your advice and thanks in advance.

A.C.

Dear A.C.,

You claim to be a believer. I am happy that you are. May I remind you that the Bible warns Christians not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers. A Christian should not establish an intimate relationship with an atheist. Please read 2 Corinthians 6:14.

The Bible also says two cannot walk together unless they agree (Amos 3:3). If you want to please the Lord, obey God's word. God honours those who honour Him.

Pastor