Dear Pastor,

I have been married to my husband for more than three years. I think something is going on with him. I really do not want to believe that he is being unfaithful, but he has changed in every way. What can I do to be certain? What should I do overall?

J.A.,

Dear J.A.,

You have not said enough for me to answer your letter intelligently. What has your husband been doing? I can't say that he is or is not cheating. I don't know. You have to be very careful how you judge your husband. Why don't you tell him how you feel? Ask him to go with you for counselling to strengthen your relationship.

Pastor