I am going through some rough times. I met this guy from Jamaica and we started talking online.

Recently, he called me and said that he is not online, yet when I went online, I saw him. Pastor, I think this guy is using me.

stop talking to him

He only calls when he wants money. I want to tell him that it's over, but I don't know how. I think he has someone on his profile that doesn't like me, and he wants me to stop talking to him because of that person.

I am hungry for your advice at this time. I like this guy so much that when I feel my body, it feels lifeless.

A., Cayman Islands

Dear A.,

This guy is a liar and a user. He only wants your money. You should end the relationship with him. You said that you do not know how to do so. That is very easy. Send him an e-mail or text him or call him on the phone and tell him that you are moving on.

Wish him well. He may call you and tell you that he does not want the relationship to end; however, don't look back. This guy has too much on his plate to be thinking about you.

Pastor