Dear Pastor,

I am a confused teenager. I've been with my boyfriend for a year now. I love him very much but that hasn't stopped me from cheating on him every now and then. I love him but, at the same time, I am not ready to be a one-man kind of girl. My problem is, I am not sure if I should tell him the things I have done, or should I just pray to God for forgiveness for the things I have done to the man that I love?

Help me, pastor.

T.W., United States

Dear T.W.,

I am sorry that as a young girl you do not consider that what you are doing is not healthy and plain promiscuous. You will get hurt. You will expose yourself to sexual diseases. You should also bear in mind that women who engage in sexual intercourse at a very young age might suffer from cervical cancer.

Please desist from playing around with your life. It is solely up to you to decide whether or not you should tell your steady boyfriend what you have been doing.

Pastor