Dear Pastor,

I am recently married. The other day my husband left his wallet on the dresser and I found a condom in there. I was so mad and I waited until he got dressed and was leaving, then I questioned him about it. We started to argue and he took his clothes off and stayed home.

He says he is not cheating. He told me that he had that for years in his wallet. I want to believe that he is not cheating but he is a handsome man, women will throw themselves at him. I don't know what to do.

D.C., Canada

Dear D.C.,

I suggest you leave this one alone. If this man is cheating, he will give himself away another time. Give him enough rope to hang himself. If he is cheating, it is likely that he would slip up at another time. And then he would not be able to say that he had the condom in his wallet for a long time.

Pastor