Dear Pastor,

With your cellphone you can limit the access by using a password. If a woman suddenly starts to hide her cellphone and you find it and when you go to look through the phone you can't access it because you need the password, she is surely hiding something. You can also tell that your woman is cheating if she is not doing stuff that she did before. If she stays at home all day and dinner is not ready and the house is a mess when you get there, something is going on.

Another thing would be if she turns every little thing into an argument as to push you away or to find a reason to get out the house. All of a sudden you are receiving calls to your home phone from persons who seem to magically have the wrong number, and when you happen to answer or when the phone rings, nobody answers on the other end.

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She then starts to have girlfriends that you have never heard of before and that's because when the man is trying to call he has some female ask for her and when she does take the phone, she will hang up abruptly and then tell you it was nothing.

T.W.

Dear T.W.,

I don't believe that couples should search each other's cellphone. I don't believe that a man should search his wife's drawer(s) or handbag or anywhere that she keeps her private belongings. So, if a woman puts a password on her phone, she has a right to do so. By doing so of course, she would be giving the impression that she is hiding something, but on the other hand, a man does not have the right to search her phone, and perhaps if he were not nosy, she would not have cause to do so.

If a woman is guilty of the things you have mentioned, she does not care what happens to her marriage and she is probably a cheater.

Pastor