Women are not always cheating if they were previously fond of sex, and then stopped being interested in sex. I disagree with that one. Ten years ago when I returned to school to pursue postgrad studies, the workload totally consumed me. I was unable to effectively balance academic and family life. My interest in sex waned because I was never able to get enough rest. My partner constantly accused me of having another man, and honestly, pastor, I was just trying to do well in my studies.

I found studying and being a great partner was a bit challenging for me at the time. Thus, a woman's lack of interest in sex can be attributed to other things. So as to acquire concrete evidence that a woman is cheating, her male partner can utilise the services offered by private investigators. Video surveillance is often used by private investigators to track and show activities (over time) of those who choose to be unfaithful to their partners. Take care and one love, pastor.

C.W.

Dear C.W.,

People are too eager to accuse one another of cheating if a couple is not having sex as often as before. Therefore, the points you have raised should be helpful to all who read this column.

Married men who are in university are often accused of neglecting their wives sexual needs. And men whose wives are at school often complain that their wives are neglecting their sexual needs. That is why it is better for a married couple to be in school together, if it is at all possible. However, most times, it is not practical.

Pastor