Dear Pastor,

I am a 14-year-old private school student who is pregnant for my 50-year-old principal. He does not know I am pregnant.

Please, tell me what to do.

P.D.

Dear P.D.,

I suggest first of all, you inform your parents about the relationship you have had with this man. Let them know he had sex with you, and the time and place it happened. Let them know you are pregnant and how you know you are pregnant. If you are afraid to tell your parents in person, you should write a letter and put it on their bed, or on their night table or somewhere they can see it and read it and beg them not to kill you.

If you are too scared to tell your parents, you may also consider telling your aunt or uncle to be present while you are talking to them. Just before you inform your parents, you should inform the principal what you are about to do. Do not allow him to try to convince you to do an abortion or to hide the matter from your parents.

Please, let me hear from you again. I know your parents will be disappointed in you, but you can have your baby and go back to school. This principal must face the consequences of his actions.

Pastor