Dear Pastor,

We live in a hypocritical society where some people act like they are not wolves in sheep's clothing. A lot of men use the 'bowing' topic to attract women. They only have to use that to make the woman come to them. Gone were the days when some men would sweet talk a lady without having to utter one sexual remark to her.

Nowadays, a sexual utterance is on the menu for the lady to know that the man feels for her in such a way. So, gentlemen need to face reality and stop acting as if they have never heard a man say he 'goes down' on a woman. Some Jamaican men need to stop being hypocrites and liars.

S.

Dear S.,

Men and women are discussing this type of sex openly. As a counsellor, I wish not to condemn anybody. My position remains the same, I do not advocate oral sex, neither do I condemn it.

Pastor