I hope you're doing well. In my opinion, I think people have sex in certain places because the risk or excitement of being caught or seen by someone else raises the adrenaline level. It gives the persons involved a rush! Speaking from personal experience, I had a girlfriend that got a thrill out of doing that with me. We once had sex in a library, in my office, on a weekend of course, when no one was there and also once in the ladies' room. I was scared out of my wits but the excitement factor was way out of this world.

G.W., California, United States

Dear G.W.,

Couples do crazy things and, like you, seem to be very proud of it. I can't encourage anybody to engage in casual and risky sex. I hope by now you have settled down and you are a good husband and, perhaps, father.

Pastor