Why is it that a person's private life cannot remain just that - private?

Whatever happens behind closed doors should most definitely remain there and should never be used as a means for exposing or judging anyone.

A lot of talk, both positive and negative, was sparked last week after a photograph of a female deejay performing oral sex with an unidentified man began circulating.

Thanks to the circulation of the picture, the woman has, in some instances, become the subject of ridicule and disgrace when, in all fairness, she did nothing to deserve it as she took part in the activity in her own private space.

Whoever chose to put the photograph in circulation definitely stooped to some low levels of immaturity.

The woman might be a public figure but, in all fairness, who cares what she does in her private life?

stop destroying each other's life

People need to learn how to worry about their own lives instead of meddling in those of others.

Sure, knowing what she does may serve for a few good jokes or whatever you wish to make of the issue. But, when all is said and done, it really does not influence the lives of the general public so it need not be made an issue.

We need to worry about becoming closer as a people instead of trying to destroy each other's life.

This is one way in which we can strive to become a model nation instead of being viewed as a country plagued by crime and violence.