Dear Pastor,

I wrote previously about a policewoman who tried to get my husband's attention by saying and doing stuff she doesn't know I am aware of. It has been years and I tried to keep it to myself. My husband tries to avoid this girl. If my husband was interested in this person, it would be okay. That is why I wrote to you asking why policewomen can't have their own men. I was wrong to say policewomen because really they don't all have the same intention. So, I apologise for that. I should have been more specific.

condemn wives

What I didn't understand in your response was, you seemed to trim and cut and try to condemn wives. I did not say my husband had an affair with a policewoman. When I said police either lie, live secret lives or drive each other crazy, I see it happen to people so often. You hear it on the news and not just police, but pastors and others. So you saying he lies or is bored and probably doesn't want to come home is a joke.

The man I married is not perfect, but he always comes home. He is a man any woman would love to have. You condemn wives for staying home and becoming careless, unattractive out of shape, and husbands go for attractive women. I don't think this policewoman is anywhere attractive, on the outside or inside. My point is don't add and subtract what your writers say or do not say. It is misleading to your readers. You made my husband laugh at your comment, wondering if you are for real. The problem we have in our relationship is witchcraft. People are always twisting information.

L. B., St Ann, Jamaica

Dear L. B.,

Please, know your place. I had another look at your first letter to me. The only thing I did from your original letter was to edit it because your grammar was very poor. I did not add or delete anything from your letter. You used a broad brush to paint all policewomen as bad. At no place in your first letter did you did use the word 'witchcraft'. If your husband wants to laugh, he should laugh at you for attacking his female colleagues in the police force.

You said you were "wrong to say policewomen because really they don't all have the same intention". How could I know what you intended to say? May I ask why should you accuse policewomen of working witchcraft? What proof do you have that they are guilty of such practice? You are paranoid and if you are paranoid there must have been something that triggered such behaviour. So, I say again, know your place. When you have something to say, speak intelligently if you don't want to be misunderstood and, please, read with understanding whatever response I have written.

spoke the truth

I did not condemn wives. I have spoken the truth but you do not seem intelligent enough to comprehend what I have written.

There you go, saying the policewoman is not attractive on the outside or inside. Do you know what you are doing? You are showing your utter contempt for this policewoman. There must be something she has over you that has caused you to hate her so much. What is it? If you know she can't get your man and your man doesn't want her, why are you being so nasty? You believe in witchcraft. It is time for you to pray. Ask God to remove the hate you have in your heart for policewomen, especially one of them.

Pastor