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December 15, 2011
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Pantyless girlfriend

Dear Pastor,

I have a problem and I need your advice. I went to America on vacation and my friends put on a party for me and I was the guest of honour. I met a young woman at the party. She is white. We became friends.

When I came back to Jamaica, we kept in touch with each other. She is a nice young lady. She came to Jamaica to visit me and she stayed at our house. I am the only son for my mother and my niece lives with us. My mother loves this young lady and was encouraging me to marry her.

seeing her period

You are a man everybody can talk to, so I am bringing this problem to you. Pastor, this young lady doesn't wear panties at all and she doesn't wear skirts either. The only times she wears panties is when she is seeing her period. Even when I took her to church with me, she wore a pants and everybody was looking at her because women don't go to the church I attend in pants.

When I was growing up, I used to hear my mother telling my sisters that women who don't wear panties are nasty. I asked my girlfriend why she doesn't wear panties and she said she feels uncomfortable in them and her mother never used to wear them and didn't insist that she should wear them every day unless it is necessary.

She stayed with us for two weeks and she washed her clothes and hung them on the line, but she didn't hang out any panties, so I wonder what my mother thought about that. My mother is a very observant woman.

What do you think about this? Apart from not wearing panties, she is very clean.


Dear N.T.,

If you truly love this woman, panty or no panty, marry her. The truth is, some women do not wear panties unless, as this woman said, it is necessary. And some women don't find it necessary. Some women feel that it is a great risk not to wear underwear.

Others don't care about that. I don't know if it is fair to consider a woman worthless if she goes pantyless.

Lots of men prefer their women not to have on underwear in bed. A woman should be free to wear what she wants to wear or not wear under her clothes. That's the way I see it.


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