Dear Pastor,

I commend you for the wonderful work that you are doing. I am a 23-year-old male who works, pays rent and attends college. A young lady sent you a letter on April 13th titled "Pretty, sexy, very lonely." I must say that as a guy, I would feel the same way.

Pastor, I have been single for almost two years now after a devastating break-up. From that time I have lost all faith in women. I made a vow to never love another woman because the flesh is so weak and women are flesh. I have met many girls since the break-up but they all fail to meet the standards I am looking for, therefore, I lie and tell them I have a girlfriend in order to remain single.

The girls I meet nowadays I can see right through them, and most of them want material things. The others are just too emotionally unstable for me to consider settling down with them, so all we do is have sex and that is it.

I don't like the idea of sleeping around too much for a guy. I would much like a smart, intelligent, ambitious girl that I can trust. Continue the good work.

A.I., Kingston

Dear A.I.,

Whether you know it or not, you are just a big talker. You are just bragging about yourself. According to you, you have not met any woman who could be your wife since you claim you broke up with your girlfriend. Yet, you have been having sex with the girls you have been meeting. According to you, they are only good for sex but nothing else. What nonsense! Stop fooling yourself.

You are nothing but a user. You have chosen these girls who you call unstable and materialistic. The truth is, guys like you only want to use women, but if these girls ask anything of you it is because they are materialistic. You are a mean man, and it is not that the girls are materialistic, but it is because you are looking for very simple girls you can push around. You need to learn to respect women and not to use them and deal with them as if they are trash.

Pastor