I read your column every day and I don't like the advice you give to us men. I believe you are sexist. If a guy is hard working and doesn't have a place of his own, but he loves his girl, that is not good enough according to you. But if a man is sending down money from England to his woman in Jamaica, that is a better man according to you.

I am a young man still attending school. I got a girl pregnant seven times while in school and she aborted the pregnancy all seven times. Now, we do not talk and I want to talk to her but I don't know how to. She loves me and I do too.

M.B.

Dear M.B.,

You are talking rubbish. You don't know what you are saying. You are not a smart student. Which girl have you impregnated seven times? Send me her name and telephone number, I would like to talk to her. If that girl told you that she got pregnant by you seven times and on every occasion she aborted the pregnancy and you believe her, you don't have any sense and you are easily fooled.

Now concerning what you have accused me of in the first paragraph of your letter, you fail to understand that men are to provide for their women and if they are not in a position to do so, they should be at least be responsible men in every way. Men cannot expect to tell women that they love them, but make no preparation for them. All they want from the women is sex.

love and security

Please learn that a woman needs love and security. She doesn't want a man just to say he loves her. She wants a provider. Too many of you young fellows are quick to accuse women of wanting your money. And the little money that you all can give cannot even buy a patty.

Look at you, you have been so irresponsible as a teenager. You are sexually active, but you are not even smart enough to use a condom. That is why you are talking rubbish about how you have impregnated a woman seven times. You better change your attitude towards women and life in general, otherwise women will make a fool of you.

Pastor