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November 22, 2012
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My instinct tells me he in cheating

Dear Pastor,

You are doing a great job. I am living with my boyfriend and I recently found out that he is cheating on me with a 16-year-old. I am 21 years old and he is 23. I normally go to visit my parents on weekends and the 16-year-old girl would go by our place when I am not there.

I asked him about it and he confessed. He said he was sorry and it will never happen again. The girl texted my phone and said that he wants her. Whenever I asked him about her, he gets angry and does not want to talk about it. He says that I am the only one in his life. She doesn't come to the house anymore, but I really love him.

Should I stay or should I go? He comes home early from work every evening and calls me often when I go home on weekends. But my instinct tells me he is still cheating.

A., Manchester

Dear A.,

This guy has not changed. He is telling you what he wants you to hear. He is probably continuing the relationship with the young woman. It is really up to you whether you wish to stay or move.


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