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November 27, 2012
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Too jealous and demanding

Dear Pastor,

I must commend you on the good job that you are doing. I am a 19-year-old male who is facing a bit of difficulty. I fell in love with a girl. She is just a few months older than I. It was great for us to get together.

Her ex fools around her every day and it is getting to me. I don't know if she loves me. I must admit that I am a very jealous person and now it is affecting me whenever I text her or call her and I don't get her. It has come to my mind that she is cheating on me.

Everything was really great when we first met. She used to call me every second and we would talk for a long time. Since she got a job, it is about 2 weeks and I hardly hear from her.

I don't know what to do. Please help me. I am about to kill myself. I can't take it.

Jealous Male

Dear Jealous Male,

Keep yourself quiet. This girl and you don't even know each other well. Probably she has decided not to try to build the relationship with you because she has found out that you are too jealous and demanding. You are only 19 years old and you want whenever you call her she should be available. You don't own this young woman and so you need to learn that you don't have any control over her. She doesn't call you often anymore. She has her reasons for not doing so.

You say that she is still friendly with her ex-boyfriend. Perhaps she has decided to renew the relationship with him. Stop talking nonsense about killing yourself. She is not the only woman in the world. If you learn to behave yourself and to be a gentleman, you will find another girlfriend.


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