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January 17, 2013
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Wait until you are ready

Dear Pastor,

I am replying in regards to the letter from 'Concerned Virgin' that was published on December 24, 2012. She explained her fears of becoming pregnant. My advice to her is to follow her mind and she will never go wrong. If she is a part of a church family, she should keep focus within that frame of mind and try to get counselling from the members. Sex will always be around. She should just have patience, but she should not abuse it either. She should give herself time to cope with the emotional stress and responsibility that it brings.

I should know because having sex at the age of 19 was the biggest mistake I have made, but at the same time, my inner ability has grown. Men say the sweetest things, but they forget that as a person a woman knows how important she is. The point is, wait, wait and wait some more. Further your education and you'll be praising yourself five-10 years from now. Good luck on your decision.


Dear Advisor,

Thanks for expressing your opinion. I hope the writer who has concerns would appreciate your letter and accept your suggestions.


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