Dear Pastor,

I believe that woman needs tenderness and caressing. It is not always about the sex. Being stroked and gently caressed is far more pleasurable than being groped and pawed. Gentleness works every time. Wham bam thank you ma'am is a turn-off.

S., St Catherine

Dear S.,

Most women would agree with you, but some may say that at times a little roughness is a big turn-on for some women. And some women like the roughness so much that it doesn't bother them if their men take a few drinks of alcoholic beverage before they come to them.

Pastor