What I want in the bedroom is to make love and not for a man to jump on and jump off. I want to be kissed slowly. I want foreplay. Penetration is not going to make me come, so caressing is a must. Penetration is a must. And as we are going along in the act, we can speed up. I don't have a problem with that as long as I am being satisfied. I am not going to fake an emotionally distraught orgasm.

Men like to brag about what they can do. So when they fall short, women should let them know.

K.

Dear K.,

I hope the men are listening to the women and heeding their advice.

Pastor