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January 18, 2013
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I don't have feelings for her anymore

Dear Pastor,

I am in a relationship with a young woman but my mind is changing from her. I don't feel the way. Whenever she comes to visit me, I don't feel the same way as when we just started. I don't kiss her anymore and we don't have sex. She is always calling me. Because I am not interested in her anymore, I don't call.

This girl treats me well. She buys me gifts and even food, but I don't love her. I wish she would not come back to see me and I wish she would leave me alone. She is good-looking, but I am not in love with her. She would do anything for me, but I haven't done anything for her.

Please, tell me what to do that would make her know I am not interested in her.


Dear R.,

Be a gentleman. You know you are not in love with this young woman, so you should tell her so and stop taking gifts from her. By taking gifts from her, you are giving her the impression you love and appreciate her. It is wrong to fool a woman and to toy with her emotions. So, I repeat, tell the woman the truth and bring an end to this relationship. You are not a good man. You don't have any guts. If a man cannot speak straight to a woman, he is immature and is still a boy.


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